Hello my black, white, yellow, tan, and if you’re ALBINO..hello my invisible lovely people!:). Ok, sorry if that was mean, but I mean C’mon, theres like no color for Albino peoples so I just made one up!.. SUE me..(well…don’t because it will be a waste of time…) no really it will, because I don’t have anything of value to give, but myself, and um NO, I’m married, you can’t have me!.. Speaking of Marriage… What a friggin subject I tell you. Marriage is bliss, its love, its walking hand in hand down the street, the birds are chirping, the sun is shining, and you go to bed holding each other like theres no tomorrow….zzzzzzz BAM!!!!! the alarm clock of reality rings and it wont SHUT UP! You wake up on totally opposite sides of the bed, barely saying two words to each other, no good mornings, or “how did you sleep dear”.. Just BLAH!.. You begin to wonder how did your marriage get to be so… BLAH.. and then you begin to study your marriage and do SO much research like you’re doing a school paper on how you can make it better, you become almost obsessed! It becomes so bad that you pity your life, and what it has become.. NOTHING ever seems to flow right, marriage and all.. If you’re at that point, you’re not alone… In the midst of feeling sorry for yourself and your marriage, DON”T… yea I know easier said than done.. but its that simple. Don’t get consumed with all of the negative thats been going on, but focus on the positive attributes of your mate. Try everyday to be less stubborn, and more loving. Giving someone, let alone your husband/wife the cold shoulder daily will only pull them further and further away, and then you’d REALLY have an issue.. Get to that point where you can talk about anything your heart desires to your mate, AND no matter what subject, your love doesn’t shift. When we become to narrow minded, we are forfeiting the opportunity to really get to know our spouse. Just because the ring is on the finger does not mean the quest to learn new things about your partner just comes to a HALT,,Now that you’ve won over your lil honey drop.. learn new ,exciting ways to keep him/her tuned in. Don’t take the “I Love you’s ” for granted, but embrace every day as a new day to get to know and be at one with your mate. Marriage CAN indeed be a beautiful thing, once couples learn to stop fighting each other, and be on the same team. You’ve invested a lot of time and effort in your marriage thus far, protect it, and don’t let anyone take it away. If you and your mate are looking at divorce square in the face… TURN around, and stop being lil punks that want to give up at every sign of trouble, because thats just showing how weak both of you are. Remember why you got married in the first place…( hopefully it wasn’t because someone was knocked up and it was the “right” thing to do ) but even so, I know that over time you truly learned to love that person, and nothing is greater than LOVE!.. now, I’m not perfect, and I’m dang sure not an expert …per se, but I’ve been there.. hell I AM there, but when its all said and done, I love my husband in spite of, and I can only pray that we will still be attached 50 years from now, and he will probably STILL be getting on my nerves lol, but when its all said and done, I’d still feel like hes the only one for me, and nothing will ever take away that feeling….. SO, hey… yea YOU.. Go find that one person that makes your heart sing and go love on em… Until next time.. LATER fam..
